Shocking Revelation: Kate Chastain’s Candid Reaction to Aesha’s Fiancé Confession: ‘Definitely Not My Thing’

Aesha Scott and Kate Chastain may share some similarities when it comes to their styles as chief stews, but the ladies couldn’t be more different when it comes to their respective love languages.

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The Below Deck alum and the Mustique chief stew are appearing together (along with Aesha’s other castmates) on the Below Deck Mediterranean After Show to discuss the biggest moments from Season 9, and in the clip above, Kate addresses Aesha’s candid confession that she sometimes sends pictures of her… erm, excrement… to her fiancé, Scott “Scotty” Dobson.

Aesha, more specifically, said on Episode 8 of Below Deck Med, “When I do a really big one, I like to show Scott.”

Kate’s response? “Aesha, I love you. And I love how much Scott loves you, and it’s not my thing, but I don’t think he’s surprised.

“I think every relationship is so different, and you should lean into what works for you,” Aesha said as her justification for sending the images.

Kate joked that sending the photos is “Aesha’s love language. And it’s not Scott’s, but he needs to receive it.”

Aesha then asked Kate what her love language is.

“Thank you for asking, I thought you’d never ask. It’s attention and questions. So I’m glad we got there,” Kate joked, before sharing her real answer. “All of them. All of the love languages. I think there’s five. I like all of them.”

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Aesha Scott’s relationship with fiancé Scott Dobson
Aesha clearly has a very comfortable relationship with her fiancé of two months, and she told The Daily Dish that the two plan to wed in December of 2025.

“We are loving basking in the moment and enjoying this phase of our relationship,” Aesha told The Daily Dish on May 29. “We want to have a long engagement.”

“We want to do it in the New Zealand summer, which is obviously over the Christmas time,” Aesha said. “We don’t want to do it this summer. We want to do it next summer. We wanted to enjoy this phase, and we also wanted to wait long enough that all of our American friends and family had enough time to save and to really turn it into a big holiday.”

Watch new episodes of Below Deck Mediterranean Season 9 on Mondays at 9/8c on Bravo. Stream the next day on Peacock.

Shocking Revelation: Kate Chastain’s Candid Reaction to Aesha’s Fiancé Confession: ‘Definitely Not My Thing’

New episodes of the Below Deck Mediterranean After Show drop on BravoTV.com on Mondays at 10/9c. Stream the next day on Peacock.